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Makkal Hanaya
Hanaya Deferment Co
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Posted - 2012.07.11 21:35:00 -
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Kat Valja wrote:nine years ago I had one night of love with a man I thought loved me only to be cruelly abandoned to raise our child alone. Now my son wants to know his father but all I know is that he was training to be a pilot when we shared our breif ectasy. i have promised him I will find his father for him even though the name he gave me was a fake.
Someone among you must know who this man is, even maybe you are that man yourself. Show a bit of compassion for the woman and child you abandoned and speak up.
Can you give us a description at least?
His race? How tall he was? Was he older? Did he recently become a capsuleer?
With this description, the man could be my brother and I wouldn't be able to tell.
Katrina Oniseki wrote:The short of this post is this:
Learn a man's name before bedding him, and wear protection if you are unprepared for children.
Addendum: Get a once a year injection. They're cheap, or free, harmless, and you'll never forget to use it due to chemical recreation. I know women who aren't even sexually active who get the shot during their annual check-up.
I assume that's easily available in the State.
Scherezad wrote:You both presume that she didn't use protection.
Unless they use sheep intestine condoms in the State, I assume she didn't use protection.
although my eyes were open
they might have just as well've been closed
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Makkal Hanaya
Hanaya Deferment Co
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Posted - 2012.07.11 22:07:00 -
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I find this forum amusing at times.
One second I see people decrying a woman for being drunken and promiscuous, the next they're vowing to hunt down the traitorous knave who wronged her and is currently using all his influence to stop justice being done.
More than likely, he doesn't remember that night, wouldn't remember the woman's name if he met her face to face, and has no idea that he has a child. I doubt he'll resist paying a small amount of ISK to support the boy, but what the mother wants is 'a father' for her child.
My suggestion is that she find a suitable man to have a long term relationship with and let that be the child's father. I question whether a random capsuleer with no emotional ties to her or the boy would make a good father.
although my eyes were open
they might have just as well've been closed
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Makkal Hanaya
Hanaya Deferment Co
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Posted - 2012.07.12 20:33:00 -
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To be sure: Randomly posting personal matters in widely-read public venues is also a capsuleer-like approach.
although my eyes were open
they might have just as well've been closed
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